Anonymous said: How is the best way to give a blowjob? Like what feels best for the guy?
First make sure YOUR comfortable with it, if your not you most likely won’t enjoy it and that can ruin the mood. Second thing is to tease him a bit, starting with your hands touching his penis, testicles, perineum and inner thigh, make sure you listen/see to his reaction to your touch, that will tell you what he likes. Then give him a lick on the tip in circles or figure eights, Dont* be afraid to use lots of saliva, using saliva is a natural lube and feels great while creating friction/suction. Change up depth and speeds to what he likes. Play/suck on his testicles. A great blowjob incorporates both hands and mouth, place one hand around the shaft of his penis while you move up and down on the top half of the penis. You will after awhile feel more comfortable and more fitted to what he likes, the main key is for him to be vocal and tell you what feels good because all guys are different. These are all just tips and you should just do what your comfortable with the first time. Being confident is a huge turn on so just be confident with yourself. Good luck! (;
Anonymous said: Not sure how to phrase this but I lack confidence, any tips on how I can boost it to get anywhere with a girl?
Well keep in mind that confidence is the sexiest accessory a man can have, but cockiness will come off rude, so you have to find that middle. Being dressed in nice clothing and feeling clean add huge confidence boost because if you feel good, others will be more likely to interact with a well dressed man. Lightening up helps, don’t be afraid to make that first move, most women will expect you to. Smiling and laughing a lot while being with a woman will make her feel comfortable and make you less nervous. I know this may sound silly but, Everyday you need to look at yourself in the mirror and name the things you love about yourself, and remember You are a sexy confident man after all, Who wouldn’t love you?! I mean how can anyone else feel good about you if you don’t feel good about yourself? Hope I helped! :)